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Wellspring

Giving is our source of water: without resources, this place cannot keep going.
So Lezismore needs water, and needs not to be bound by the source.

On an internet ruled by traffic and surveillance, Lezismore has consistently chosen not to court algorithms, not to sell personal data, and not to live mainly on advertising. That refusal keeps this ecospace free — and it also keeps it short of water.

If you want to support Lezismore, start here:

Add to the Flow

Give monthly

For bubbles who want to stay with Lezismore steadily.

Give once

For bubbles who just feel like adding a little water right now.

Fading Chat subscription

For bubbles who want to support Lezismore and also try entering a time-limited space for interaction.

Payment note: clicking will take you to a secure Stripe payment page. Transaction fees are covered by Lezismore.

Three Principles

No ownership

Lezismore belongs to no outside funder, advertiser, political party, or institution.

How much anyone gives does not affect our autonomy.

No interference

Lezismore's operating culture, how content is presented, how reports are reviewed, and how the community judges — none of it is influenced by donors.

No transaction

We will not treat your support as a promissory note waiting to be redeemed.

Lezismore does not owe you anything for it, and you do not thereby buy a Lezismore that has to match what you imagined.

This ecospace needs resources, but it cannot be bought or bound by them.
That is also why giving matters so much: how many bubbles choose to support us shapes how firmly we can stand.

Where the Water Stands

Last checked: August 14, 2026

What it takes to keep this ecospace standing

  • Someone keeping watch

    moderation, security, legal compliance, and handling appeals

  • Repair and upkeep

    interface and governance changes, code updates, bug fixes

  • Continuing to grow

    content, archiving, and new community experiments

(Above this line, there is no scale; none of this can be given a number. Since 2015 this work has never stopped — and none of it has ever appeared on an invoice with a price attached.)

The invoice

hosting, domains, payment processing, tools and service fees: everything you can get a receipt for

Water coming in

The blue level shows the water still flowing in right now: recurring gifts and Fading Chat subscriptions that are still set to renew, 68 in all, equivalent to about US$226 a month.

Amounts are as shown by Stripe, before fees, and not converted to New Taiwan dollars. Six-month and one-year Fading Chat subscriptions are shown here as monthly equivalents; subscriptions still in their free-trial period are not counted.

One-time gifts are used as they come in; they are recorded in the register of supporters, not here.

This level records only the moment it was last checked; it does not reach back into earlier years. Every inflow, year by year, is kept in the register of supporters, open to compare.

We check actual monthly spending once a month. Over all these years, the work above the "invoice" line has never become a "number" or a "price."

The water has yet to fill the invoice band.

Why a Wellspring

Resources are not neutral. Wherever the money comes from, that is where the relationships grow from.

Advertising shapes a place in its own image; traffic brings a culture of its own.
Giving, too, brings expectation, reciprocation, gratitude, visibility, and one round of persuasion after another. (And the reverse of all that: disappointment, silence, resentment, neglect, and one round of discouragement after another.)

So Lezismore cannot easily survive by looking like an ordinary donation page.

There is anonymity here, and the erotic; there is coming close, misreading, pulling back, and recognizing again.
There are also things that cannot be brought into the light and traded for approval.

So we keep looking for a way to take on water — one that must keep this ecospace alive, while pushing it as little as possible toward pleasing the source.

The Servers Are Not the Expensive Part

Most people think of hosting costs first. True — servers do cost money.

But if hosting were all it took, would anyone who threw a few hundred dollars a month at a server automatically grow a Lezismore?

No. A server only puts the pages somewhere; technology is only a "tool."

What actually gets used up here is someone who, over years, understands the register here, the risks, the relationships, the boundaries, the legal shadows — and who makes a judgment every single time about whether to step in, whether to speak, whether to change the design.

Those judgments still cannot appear directly on any invoice. Yet they are the reason this ecospace has not fallen apart.

Support Is Not a Badge of Identity

We know that people who support a place also need to feel connected to it. That is natural.

But Lezismore cannot turn support into a badge that shines too brightly.

In an ecospace that holds anonymity, the erotic, and misreading, certain honors, once worn, become more than gestures of thanks.

They can become projection, social capital, a shortcut by which others judge you (or misjudge you); they can also become a halo above your own head as you approach someone else.

So Lezismore keeps "support" a little quieter: there is gratitude, there is connection, but it does not become a medal people measure against one another.

Fading Chat Is a Waterway

We are trying out Fading Chat, a subscription inside the community.

Messages disappear automatically after 60 days. It also brings new governance risks. It is not a product "feature," still less a "matching system." It is not a perfect answer, and it is not a magic room that guarantees you will meet anyone.

It is more like a waterway: a place that is easier to enter and easier to leave, for people who need to come close in real time — and a way for this ecospace to keep living without selling or sacrificing anything more.

Register of Supporters

Every gift is a drop of water entering this place.

A supporter's name, message, and amount may be listed in the register of supporters.

Where personal data is involved, entries are anonymized as a rule.

See the register of supporters

Questions About Giving

If you have other questions about giving, or you want to stop a recurring gift, you can write to us:

contact(at)lezismore.org

Beyond giving — want to make something together? Ways to Collaborate.